Magic and Girls

[DannyT]

Niice story man!
I don't think I'd ever ask a girl out using magic like that. Too risky lol.
Talk about leaving your comfort zone. lol

If I ever did that and she said no, I wouldn't even be able to perform again because all of my friends would always mention that I was rejected performing magic, when I'm performing for new people.

I could see it now . . . . . . . . . . . . . . , "I guess your magic wasn't good enough."

Imagine you screw up during that sleight and everything turned to crap?
She looks at the card like , "wtf?"
lol

I'm rambling.

 

[baller08]

While this is a nice story, this isn't the best way to know to interact and attract women. In nearly all cases if you're "chasing a girl" for months or years, you'll always just be a friend and never the boyfriend.

Women don't want men who are afraid of them or afraid of rejection...it lacks confidence and they can smell it on you. You put them on a pedestal and treat them like queens and there is no bigger turn off for women than that.

It's great that you guys are together...but if you don't have anything other than magic, she'll leave you sooner than later. Make sure you don't act needy, clingy, or treat her like she's your entire world. Respect her, but make sure you have your own life and standards. Don't take any **** when she acts like a brat and she'll love you for it.

 

[Between the Sun & the Sky]

Not quite what I was expecting when I looked into this thread, but... good job! Best of luck to both of you.

Sun|Sky

 

[Phenomena]

while i have to say good job...i have to play devils advocate on this one...

and i agree with baller

its EXTREMELY rare that any girl would want anything to do with a guy after years of nothing happening... you have to remember with women, attraction isnt a choice. Its a subconscience signal, and within seconds of her meeting you, she determines weather she wants to be with you, or just be friends. Sure sometimes things like this happens, but dont hold your breath guys.

Also what baller says is 100% correct

the thing 95% of guys do for women when is DEAD WRONG is play the "nice guy"
being "nice" leads to being PREDICTABLE which equals BORING

be a bit of a prick, cocky/funny (dont be demeaning) but for heavens sake, dont be nice.


But on this topic- ive been successful in attracting a ton of women with magic over the years...well not only magic
no word yet on long term relationships, but i can help anybody get a one night stand out of it lol

 

[baller08]

the thing 95% of guys do for women when is DEAD WRONG is play the "nice guy"
being "nice" leads to being PREDICTABLE which equals BORING

be a bit of a prick, cocky/funny (dont be demeaning) but for heavens sake, dont be nice.

That's exactly right. Most guys think along the lines of, "I want a girl to just like me for me, but I don't want to change". Either their Mom or well meaning female friends have told them, "Just be yourself" and they go for years of seeing cute girls and just freezing up.

Whether it's casual dating or long term relationships, attraction is attraction. Guys who women don't want to date casually are the same guys they don't want to have a relationship with either.

Magic is a great way to "be different" initially, but if you don't know to set the correct frame and understand how to communicate with women, then once the trick is done, the girl is gone. Magic should be a tool and not a "trick" to meet girls you like. Basically, if you can't generate attraction without "crutches", then you'll never get into a relationship where it's equal. You'll always be chasing and feeling like you have to "earn" the girl. Not a good place to be in.

 

[JackyChan]

Said person, why do you hate me?

 

[godl3y]

Said person, why do you hate me?

I dont think anyone hates you seeing as you have not so many posts.


P.S im new here can anyone reccomend anything good to buy?

 

[copperfield 14]

Said person, why do you hate me?

We don't hate you

I dont think anyone hates you seeing as you have not so many posts.


P.S im new here can anyone reccomend anything good to buy?

Check out the reviews in the review section. I'd go with dangerous, trilogy, panic, or exhile. But that's just me

 

[RDChopper]

Just to share a performance I did last friday....

I was at a concert with some friends ( cafe tacuvba? naa i dont think you guys know them) anyway, we were all waiting there when I notticed a group of 3 girls ( very attractive by the way) so I went to them and I said to them..


Me: Hi how are you?

Them: (they look at me with a weird look) amm Fine?.....

Me: Can I show you something??? ( How do you say in english when you say something and the people take that in a bad way, or that it has some double meaning to them? you know what I mean)

Them:jajajaja, what is it?(they took it in the wrong way)

Me: No it's nothing just a card trick, may I?

Them: Amm allright!

So there I began with a simple transposition, (you know just a strong opener) after that I began with boyfriend exboyfriend ACR routine, ( If you are curios the whole routine is here by the way, awesome thread, I would like to see it on the top again )

They screamed, they like it and when I finished ( and let me make a big empashis on this) I TOOK THE CARDS OUT AND I STARTED TO TALK WITH THEM BY MYSELF, a lot of times we have talked in this forums about picking girls with magic, and a lot of the users here have said that it is wrong, and I understand that... do you want to use your magic as an icebraker?? that's fine with me, that's what I use... Do you want to compensate your lack of social skills with magic? you are wrong then....

Excuse me all you guys if I sound like a very arrogant brat, sorry, it's not my intention, and as some of you remember , English is not my nature lenguage, so sometimes I cant express things the way I want to express them...

Anyway, nice thread, keep it going and have a nice day everyone.. CHeers!

 

[praetoritevong]

I dont think anyone hates you seeing as you have not so many posts.


P.S im new here can anyone reccomend anything good to buy?

A book - make a new thread telling us what you like though, if you want to ask the forum. Depends on a lot of things.

I have to agree with Baller and Phenomena; having said that, let's not forget that in this specific case, Abu has shared something successful also. But good words to heed for the future.

 

[supernaturalone]

Start studying pick-up artist skills. It will not only help you get any girl you you want, it will also help make you a better magician.

Take it from me, I've been a PUA for the last 4 years and have become an instructor along the way.

 

[StevenLevitt]

A PUA... What is the aim? Just wondering as I have never heard of it before.

 

[GusEds]

Pick up Artists are the masters of smoothness and talking to women (or men) and seducing them (maybe). It's the surefire way of going on a date!

 

[supernaturalone]

PUA stands for Pick-Up Artist.

 

[fridoliina]

Its hilarious to see guys give other guys advice on what kind of guys girl wants.

Being a really nice guy is NOT the wrong or boring thing to be. I would say that 95,8 % of women over the age of 17 knows how boring a "bad boy" is after a week or two.

 

[GusEds]

You don't have to be a 'bad boy' because that's narcistic. Just dont be mr. Predictability, and you should add some spice to the love.

-Gustavo "Loverboy" Guimaraes

 

[RDChopper]

Its hilarious to see guys give other guys advice on what kind of guys girl wants.

Being a really nice guy is NOT the wrong or boring thing to be. I would say that 95,8 % of women over the age of 17 knows how boring a "bad boy" is after a week or two.

Hahaha,that's a very exact amount right there....anyway, you being a girl, let's pretend that you dont know magic, would you find nice if a guy aproaches you and asks you if you want to see something?(magic)


haha, thanks for the post, it's nice to see girls involved in magic more than before

 

[Daugava]

They story maybe works for magicians in age between 8 and 13, how old are you? Just curious!