One Card Wonder, If I may offer my advice. "Quit while you're ahead." You made an inappropriate, and very tactless comment that you thought was funny, witty, or something close to that. Some people have lost loved ones to cancer, and they don't consider it a laughing matter. It's easy to understand how some would consider the comment to be in bad taste.
Had this be a verbal exchange of words and opinions perhaps ground could be given to assume the comment was not well thought through, but the very fact that you have the option to edit your posts at anytime, that you have to type out your replies (thus-for having to think about what you are saying) and then have to press a submit button before the post is active creates more than enough time for someone to re-consider their post. Possibly even to contemplate if what they even said would be appropriate.
You've been called out on it. Quit being defensive. Admit you were wrong, say you're sorry, take a bow and get off the stage.
I'm just trying to help you here.
Had this be a verbal exchange of words and opinions perhaps ground could be given to assume the comment was not well thought through, but the very fact that you have the option to edit your posts at anytime, that you have to type out your replies (thus-for having to think about what you are saying) and then have to press a submit button before the post is active creates more than enough time for someone to re-consider their post. Possibly even to contemplate if what they even said would be appropriate.
You've been called out on it. Quit being defensive. Admit you were wrong, say you're sorry, take a bow and get off the stage.
I'm just trying to help you here.